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To Be Thankful

This year I am thankful for the global pandemic and what it has made me realize.

By Nick Kohler

Ten days into 2020, I turned 21 years old. Four days later, I was flying to Italy to begin my semester abroad. Just two weeks later, my host mom, whom I had known all of a week, told me that 2020 would be the best year of my life. Boy, was she wrong! 

Obviously, the COVID-19 pandemic has taken many lives and caused extreme stress across our country. For all those who have lost someone close to them, I apologize. This article is not meant to diminish the memories you created with this person or these people, nor is it meant to lessen the grief of losing a loved one. Instead, I want this article to challenge the way we understand the struggles in our lives. Because I, like many others, did not have the year I expected to. 

I studied abroad in spring 2020 in Florence, Italy. Just six weeks into my dream, COVID-19 first ruined my plans. My program got shut down. Within a week,  to leave the new friends I made, the family I lived with and all my plans behind. Dublin for St. Patrick’s Day. Barcelona over spring break. The backpacking trip spanning six countries and three weeks with my roommates. My opportunity to study abroad was gone before I ever could truly capitalize on it. 

So, like many other students, I returned to the U.S., assuming that life would return to normal.  then the pandemic followed me here. The internship I had aspired to have and had gotten was pulled from my grasp, and more plans went to the wayside. 

I, like many others, faced mental health challenges. I dealt with depression, self-hate and anxiety. I faced difficult questions about if I should go out and socialize. Did my need to socialize for my mental health outweigh my moral obligation to do what is right for the country and for those who are at risk? 

I returned to Boulder hoping that the school that I had now known for three years would be the same as I left it. That my last year would be the best in my life. That my three previous years were building up to this one last year. I, like so many others, found that not to be true. 

So how can I be thankful for this pandemic? 

I’m not, but I am thankful for what the pandemic has taught me about myself and about what is important in life. I recently read an article that describes how most college students and those who have graduated college have already spent around 90% of the time they will spend with their parents. Meaning this: Of all the time I will spend with my parents in my life, I have already spent 90% of it, if not more. 

So rather than thinking about how I could have been gallivanting all over Europe this past spring and summer, I focused on the time I got to spend cooking with my mom or playing darts with my dad or playing video games with my brother or taking my dog on a walk or watching family movies. Of the last 10% I will get to spend with my parents. 

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This year I dealt with real mental health challenges for the first time in my life, and I am sure I am not the only one. But I am grateful to have recognized that I needed to get help. I am grateful to have gotten help. And I am grateful to understand that taking care of my mental health is not something that will just passively happen in my life, but something that I have to purposely take time out of my day to do. I am grateful that the patterns I have established this summer will lead me to more self-love and to a brighter future. I am grateful that I now know that being there for someone is something that anyone and everyone should do. 

I am grateful that our country dealt with issues surrounding racial topics and issues of public health. I am grateful it happened on a stage for all to see. I’m grateful that I got to participate in efforts of change. And while this issue remains unresolved and we still have a long way to go, I am grateful to have been able to see some change. 

I’m grateful that this semester I got to spend real time with my roommates. To deepen our relationships so that they are ones that last beyond college. To make new, real friendships.  While this semester was not the traditional one, I am grateful to the teachers who tried to make it feel traditional. The ones who checked in on how I was doing. The ones who got creative with lectures. The ones who understood that 2020 sucked. 

So yeah, 2020 sucked. I did not have the best year of my life. I only got to see one country in Europe when I planned to see 13. I did not get my dream internship. I did not have the second to last semester of college that I envisioned. 

2020 made me realize who and what things are important in my life: family, friends, my health, justice. I faced more real challenges this year than any previous year, and I am still here. 

So I challenge you: instead of just acknowledging 2020 as the year from hell, analyze it. How did this year help you grow? Appreciate it. You are strong enough to survive this year in which you were tested, perhaps more so than any other year. Grow from it.

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, The Bold staff reflects on this past year and finds the silver linings, blessings and opportunities in their lives to be thankful for.

“In a time where it seems that every day is the same, the zoom calls drag on and there is uncertainty in the air, I try to look for new things to be thankful for. This season, I am thankful for the safety of my family and close friends and the time we do get to spend together. 2020 has been a hard year and has only proven that we need to appreciate our surroundings, the mundane aspects of daily life and each other more than ever. I am thankful for the ability to learn at a high level, even if it is through my screen. I am thankful for the ability to engage with family and friends through online games and FaceTime calls. I am thankful for the unconditional love from my pets. I am thankful for the connecting social media apps that allow me to know my feelings are shared by millions. I am thankful for the opportunity to improve my cooking and baking skills, eating at home can be really fun too! I am thankful for new friendships found in unique places. I am thankful that I get to be thankful, that I can safely socially distance myself and protect the people I care about. There are a lot of challenges that this year has brought, but when you think about it, there are so many things to be grateful for.” – Lauren Irwin 

“I am thankful for Boulder
Even as the weather gets colder
This community keeps me warm
Together we stand through the storm
Shoulder to shoulder.” – Alisa Meraz-Fishbein

“This Thanksgiving I am thankful to have my health. Though my family and I live in separate states and cannot travel to be with each other this holiday, I am thankful that I have loved ones who I care for and who care for me. When it is all said and done, everyday we wake up is a blessing.” – Steven Bonifazi

“In these crazy times I find myself extra thankful for close family and friends. I have never been more thankful and appreciate face to face contact and seeing the smiles of loved ones.” – Pablo Rodriguez

“For me, one of the greatest takeaways of this time in quarantine has been the value of relationships. When we had to isolate and face a lot of uncertainty, it was the kindness and compassion of those around me that kept me hopeful. I am thankful for my professors who took the time to ask their students how they are doing and were flexible in their expectations; for my friends who continue to host virtual game nights and have kept me laughing; for my family who listens to me when I struggle or need a good cry; and to my coworkers and peers who have worked with an admirable level of kindness and adaptability that’s allowed us to be a strong team. It’s been a hard year. But with them– with their compassion– I’ve felt safe, happy and loved.” Tayler Shaw

“First off, I am so thankful for all of the friends and opportunities that The Bold has provided for me this year. I have finally got to pursue my dreams of sports journalism with thanks to The Bold. I have gotten to write stories about what I am excited about and even been able to attend a football game. During this pandemic and wild year, I have really found out what means the most to me. It is friends and family that I am so thankful for this year because I would not have gotten through this terrible, long year without them. Going through this pandemic made me realize that I can’t do everything alone and I would need to rely on everyone close to me. Therefore, I am extremely thankful for all of my friends and family that keep me sane and occupied during these turbulent times.”Ike Hartman 

“I am thankful for my family and health during these times!” Piper Vaughn

“This year has taught me that nothing is guaranteed so it’s important to be thankful for the basics such as my health and the stability of my living situation.” Kyle Kells

“I’m thankful for my friends and family who have kept me company through quarantine and 2020.” John Boughey

“I am thankful for the opportunity to receive a degree in higher education. I am thankful for my family’s unconditional support and guidance through my rollercoaster of dreams and aspirations, and my mom who taught me what it means to be courageous in all aspects of my life.”Hannah Prince

“I am thankful for the place I am in life right now, being a sophomore in a university, and for the support I have had to get here. I am thankful for all those that inspire me and help to keep me going each day.” Areyana Proctor

“I’m thankful for my mom every year, but especially this year. She’s just so understanding and will set aside whatever she’s doing if I need to talk about things or if I ask for help. Especially in a year this chaotic, it’s been a blessing to have a wonderful support system as a mother who loves me unconditionally no matter what. We like to take pictures on some of America’s most famous bridges…” Vinny Lupo

“With COVID-19, the Election, and the Social Justice issues at hand, 2020 has been a strange year. However, when the initial stay at home order hit in March, I utilized that period by going home to  reflect on my life and spend meaningful time with family. I am extremely thankful for that time as it helped me tremendously.” Adam Brubaker

“Honestly, I’m just really thankful that we live during a time where we’re able to spread positive messages and movements globally (through social media and whatnot). I love being able to speak out on my thoughts about local, national, and international issues on any platform.” Nic Tamayo

“I am thankful for being allowed to go over 1,200 words in a feature. Further, having a team that gives me the freedom to break deadlines and other trivial rules for higher quality content while encouraging my professional development. There’s honestly no place like The Bold being completely honest.” Steven Michael Hlavac Jr. 

“I’m thankful for my incredible support from my family, friends and my team at The Bold! They have created so many opportunities for me to grow and prosper at CU. I’m excited for what the future holds, thanks to all the amazing people in my life for pushing me to achieve whatever I set my mind to.” – Nikki Edwards 

“I’m thankful for my roommates. The last few months we’ve been seeing a lot of each other, and it can get tense at times, but without them it would be a lot harder getting through the whole situation currently. They make me food sometimes too and I’m VERY thankful for that.” – Amir Kalani 

“This year, I’m thankful for stumbling upon sunsets wherever I go. I lost my mom two years ago this month, and every time I see a sunset it reminds me of her! She used to love to walk our dog when the sun was setting and point out the beauty in a new day. This year has been filled with uncertainty but I can always count on a gorgeous sunset to remind me that every day brings new light and possibility.”Abby Schirmacher

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-Sierra George