Dating is already hard enough as it is and adding a pandemic in the mix of everything just makes it that much more difficult. So the question is, how do you go about dating during a pandemic? Well it depends on what you are doing honestly. Dating can mean a lot of things and may be in person or via facetime. However, if you do plan on going out, there are some recommended steps to take besides the basics.

During Covid it is important that you wear a mask and stay six feet apart from one another. I know this is hard since you probably want to hug this individual the first time you meet, but you always have to remember we are in a pandemic and a lot is unknown about this virus so just be cautious and keep your distance for the moment.

Second, ask them about how they are adjusting their behavior during the pandemic. Do they actively wear masks and respect the social distancing guidelines? If they live with someone, do they respect the same thing and follow it? Have they ever had the virus? How do they feel about the virus (are they being safe and doing everything in their power to avoid it)? I know this sounds like a lot to ask on the first date or the first time you plan to meet up with them, but it is necessary for your safety and the safety of others.

Third, go get a test. The best way to know if you have it, or the person you are going out with has it, is to get tested before meeting with this individual. Remember that some people experience symptoms and others don’t. The best thing to do is get tested to make sure you and your date are all good to go and won’t infect the person you are around or others that might come in contact with you while on the date.

If that conversation goes smoothly then set up a date! But before you go, call the place you are going to or go online and see how they are doing during the pandemic. What are they doing in their power to keep you and others safe? Are they social distancing? Are they enforcing wearing a mask? Do they clean the tables after each individual sits down? Are the tables six feet apart from one another?

This might seem like a lot of questions, but I assure you that the more you ask and understand the situation, the better off you will be. Not only for yourself but everyone around you. Remember, this virus is still very prevalent in our society today and if you can’t wait to get back out there and date just be cautious, follow state guidelines and never be afraid to ask questions.